What will you do when you have to live in a not familiar city?

muyiowen

If you have to work or live in an unknown city without a friend, every thing for you in the city is new, and you are lonely, because all of your friends are far from you, what will you do in this case? Do you like an unknown and no friends city to live in?

moli

for one thing,get used to the environment as soon as possible.
for another,make friends with as more people as you can.
last but not least,take active part in more society activities.

756925876

ah... it's a problem.make new friends there for exciting life and  remeber to contact your  old friends  comforting yourself

linda_guo

i can't bear to live in a strange city.
i finish my university in Shanghai, and many classmates work in Shanghai. i remember when we graduated, graduation office in our university offered me a very good job with higher salary in a large company in Guangzhou. i refused without much hesitation.
i can't imagine to live in a city with no friends. i have to stay at home alone, go shopping alone, do anything alone, what's more, i can't understand the lacal language Cantonese. this is really terrible.

tina123

everyone what you said is right, i was in such a sitituation. but if you want to make a drastic change in your life, i feel that you should have intergrity,independance.and then you will be learned more than others.

sddzzqq

muyiowen: What you said is definitely right. I have the same feeling with you.

culture shock is almost unavoildable. there are four stages: honeymoon, hostility, adjustment and  adaption!

Johnnyjiang

Live in a strange place, in a new city, I think that making more friends is your urgent affaires,
But how to make friends?
You should know well your interest, and in this way, to find some person who has the same interest with you, such as, you can to do more sports which you like, and then you'll find someone also like the sport, so you are friend.
it's very easy, isn't it?

muyiowen

nik58791526: I think it's not a problem for me. Becuase i'm a independence and can take care self man. But, about the friend, i think during some time, i can know

yeah, that's true, we have diffrent friends in diffrent periods of life, but some friends are always with you trough the whole life.

nik58791526

I think it's not a problem for me. Becuase i'm a independence and can take care self man. But, about the friend, i think during some time, i can know somebody,and use my passion and affinity to make more and more friends.