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Hot 2772 views. 2014-7-1 09:17 |Individual Classification:my normal life| emotion

As a mother I always have many orders to my daughter, however, which bother her much sometimes.

Yesterday her grandpa picked her to hometown.I warned her that 7 days- stay there is enough. " I will miss

you much otherwise " I said.

" I wont miss you at all, I will stay there for two months " she responded.

I cooked myself , washed the clothes but no matter what I have done through the whole day I also can

remember my daughter. her words , her joy , even her sob . I regret I have punished her strongly when she made mistake on homework or in life .

When I came to bed in the evening I said to my husband I miss daughter much , she jeered at me and

asked me to telephone her. I refused it . I am worry to bother her again. she must share her joyful time.

without orders , without homework.

This morning , I found I have forgot to take usual medicine for her then I had a reason to telephone .

during speaking , her grandmother told me she will pick some at near picnic .By the way she said to me my

daughter decided just stay there 5 days .because she miss her mother (me) much .

hung up the telephone , I burst into tears . I understand well Mum is Mum.

Reply penfield 2014-7-1 11:01: If you telephoned your daughter that time, she will have a better time. Even bothered.

Reply umbrellazh 2014-7-1 14:47: This noon, I had a conversation with one of my friends, talking something about being a mother. Man and woman play the different roles in our life, for the difference division of labor definitely exists. Additionally, woman is more sensitive, careful and cautious than man. These factors contribute too much to the fact that it is mother who sacrifice more for the family and kids. Being a mother, we enjoy it and don't care whether we have freedom or have more time to know new friends. Anyway, that is the greatness of mother's love. BTW, you have more reliance on ur daughter than hers on you. I don't think it is a good thing for her growth. Mothers and kids should have their own life, which can ensure her upright growth. Let's try to be a sensible and smart mothers.

Reply sys 2014-7-2 09:46: umbrellazh: This noon, I had a conversation with one of my friends, talking something about being a mother. Man and woman play the different roles in our life, fo ...
Perfect idea. I have realized we are different unit . I will try my best to be her friend.
From your words you might be a mother too . and I am sure you must be a good one to your kids .

Reply sys 2014-7-2 09:49: penfield: If you telephoned your daughter that time, she will have a better time. Even bothered.
perhaps . I am trying to be a good Mum for her , actually , I have been a Mum for 7 years , however , I am worried sometimes .

Reply penfield 2014-7-3 08:07: sys: perhaps . I am trying to be a good Mum for her , actually , I have been a Mum for 7 years , however , I am worried sometimes .
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