we indulge us in reading , watching film, and talking in our style, which reminded me the life when we were passtionately in love in past 10 years . what’s more, we didn’t cook as routine line and roasted sweet potato as lunch , even now I am sharing the sausage while I am typing letters ,all of the fremdom based on which we sent our kids to their grandparents.

I wonder what constrain our life in the same line and we are accustomed to the daily tasks gradually . should I blame all the results on the kids ? However, what should do or not for the kids are designated by our parents . Therefore , we should leave the kids more freedom when they come back .

we need rules to regulate our life but we should not be constrained by the rules . Perhaps I need to be kid sometime when I live with kids togeher.